A From Left to Write Interview with Maddie Dawson, author of The Stuff That Never Happened

Maddie Dawson, author of The Stuff That Never Happened

Maddie Dawson, author of The Stuff That Never Happened

Maddie Dawson joins us today on From Left to Write for an interview about her book The Stuff That Never Happened and about her life as a writer.

Read the inspired book club posts about The Stuff That Never Happened by the From Left to Write bloggers .

Q: Where is your favorite place to write?

A: I have two places I love to write. One is my back porch, where I can look out at the woods and listen to the birds while I’m writing. This is a good place to be when I am listening to the voices of new characters and hearing the shape of the story they’re telling. But sometimes the back porch is just a little too close to the rest of the house, where there are all kinds of unfortunate distractions, such as the kitchen where I might need to think about what I’ll cook for dinner, or the bathtub, which if it was just a little cleaner, I could concentrate sooo much better on my writing. At that point, I need to get myself to my local Starbucks, where, believe it or not, I actually can get a lot done. I plug in my headphones, curl up in one of the armchairs, and I can write for hours, fueled by Starbucks iced tea and enough background noise to keep me truly focused on my project. I know this doesn’t make any sense at all, but it works for me.

Q: What was your favorite book as a child? As an adult?

A: I was reading all the time as a kid. I was THAT kid, the one with her face in a book, and I read so much that I actually can’t remember any absolute stand-out favorites. I loved all the Beverly Cleary books, the Donna Parker series, (I recently found one on eBay and was transported back to being 9), Nancy Drew, the Hardy Boys, and a whole bunch of books that belonged to my mother and which I wasn’t supposed to be reading! As an adult, I love Anne Lamott, Alice Munro, Allison Winn Scotch, Susan Straight, Stewart O’Nan, Mark Haddon, Elinor Lippman, Lorrie Moore—oh, you see what happens when I get asked this question? I tend to go on and on. I love so many books!

Q: Are you in a book club? Tell us about it.

A: Big sigh. I am not currently in a book club, even though I would love to be. I had to abandon my book club while I was writing my novel. It’s way too much fun to read other people’s books when you’re at a tough spot in writing your own book! But then…well, your own book doesn’t get written and pretty soon you have to go get a real job.

Q: Do you a tip for writers? (e.g., how to overcome writer’s block, find your voice, routines, etc.)

A: My tip for writers (and I teach writing workshops, so I’m always saying this to them—I can feel them rolling their eyes even while I’m typing this) is to WRITE EVERY DAY. There is no substitute for actually sitting down and getting the words down; that’s where inspiration truly lives. You may think you can create and compose while you’re walking around in the world thinking about your book—but that’s an illusion. The real stuff only happens when you’ve trained your mind to create every day and given it a space and a mandate to then do it. And then it’s like magic. You sit down, do your little crazy ritual to get started (a friend of mine can only write once she’s won a game of Solitaire on her computer), and then let your mind wander free. You’ll be surprised at what starts to develop. (One caveat: Not every day is absolutely heaven on earth when you’re writing. Some days you can sit there for hours and the words and inspiration won’t come, and you may be tempted to throw your computer out of the window.  Give yourself a break. The next day is bound to be better.)

Q:  What’s your favorite thing to do on the weekend?

A: Oh, this is a hard thing to admit—but my favorite thing to do all the time is write. I would be writing all the time if I had the choice. I know, I know. This makes for a very boring, one-note life, and after a while you have nothing to write about because you have no new experiences. So I also love hiking, talking about writing, going to the beach, eating lunch out, talking to my friends, teaching writing workshops, traveling to new places, talking about writing some more, and eating dinner out. And oh yes, I like to cook. But I must be appreciated in order to cook. And then I don’t particularly like the cleaning up part. [Read more...]

The Stuff That Never Happened by Maddie Dawson – A From Left to Write Book Club

The Stuff That Never Happened by Maddie Dawson

The Stuff That Never Happened by Maddie Dawson

What stuff do you pretend never happened? Nothing, right? Read the stories the From Left to Write bloggers are sharing today, inspired by the book The Stuff That Never Happened by Maddie Dawson.

About the book:

What if you were married to a wonderful husband for twenty-eight years but in love with another man? What if you were in love with them both?

Annabelle McKay knows she shouldn’t have any complaints. She’s been in a stable marriage that’s lasted almost three decades and has provided her with two wonderful children, thousands of family dinners around a sturdy oak table, and a husband so devoted that he schedules lovemaking into his calendar every Wednesday morning. Other wives envy the fact that Grant is not the type of man who would ever cheat on her or leave her for a younger woman. The trouble is Annabelle isn’t sure she wants to be married to Grant anymore. The trouble is she’s still in love with someone else.

In the early tumultuous years of her marriage, Annabelle carried on a clandestine affair with the one person whose betrayal would hurt her husband the most. When it ended, she and Grant found their way back together and made a pact that they would never speak of that time again. But now years later, with her children grown and gone, and an ominous distance opening between them, she can’t help but remember those glorious, passionate days and wonder if she chose the right man.

Then, when called to New York City to help care for her pregnant daughter, Annabelle bumps into her old lover. Offered a second chance at an unforgettable love, she must decide between the man who possesses her heart and the husband who has stood squarely by her side. A journey into the what-ifs that haunt us all, The Stuff That Never Happened is an intricate, heartfelt examination of modern marriage that brims with truths about the nature of romantic love.

Visit Maddie Dawson’s website and the publisher’s website.

Follow Maddie Dawson on Twitter.

Purchase your copy of The Stuff That Never Happened by Maddie Dawson.

Check out other From Left to Write upcoming book clubs and follow the From Left to Write Google Calendar to keep up to date on all of the book club events and dates.

September Book Club Title – ROOM by Emma Donoghue

Room

Room by Emma Donoghue

On September 27th, the From Left to Write bloggers will be reading the book ROOM by Emma Donoghue.

About the book:

To five-year-old Jack, Room is the entire world. It is where he was born and grew up; it’s where he lives with his Ma as they learn and read and eat and sleep and play. At night, his Ma shuts him safely in the wardrobe, where he is meant to be asleep when Old Nick visits.

Room is home to Jack, but to Ma, it is the prison where Old Nick has held her captive for seven years. Through determination, ingenuity, and fierce motherly love, Ma has created a life for Jack. But she knows it’s not enough…not for her or for him. She devises a bold escape plan, one that relies on her young son’s bravery and a lot of luck. What she does not realize is just how unprepared she is for the plan to actually work.

Told entirely in the language of the energetic, pragmatic five-year-old Jack, ROOM is a celebration of resilience and the limitless bond between parent and child, a brilliantly executed novel about what it means to journey from one world to another.

Visit Emma Donoghue’s website.

Fan Emma Donoghue on Facebook.

Pre-order your copy of ROOM by Emma Donoghue (the book will be released September 13).

Check out other From Left to Write upcoming book clubs and follow the From Left to Write Google Calendar to keep up to date on all of the book club events and dates.

From Left to Write at BlogHer’10 and September Book Club Title – Following Polly by Karen Bergreen

Following Polly by Karen Bergreen

Following Polly by Karen Bergreen

Last Friday, about twenty of 100+ From Left to Write bloggers attended the BlogHer’10 Conference in New York City. Amidst the business of conference sessions, networking, parties and just seeing NYC, the From Left to Write bloggers were honored to enjoy a relaxed and intimate private book signing and drinks with author Karen Bergreen, a New York comedian who recently published her first novel, Following Polly, a summer reading pick of Oprah’s O Magazine.

From Left to Write will be reading and holding a book club on Following Polly on September 14th.

About the book:

Would you call Alice Teakle a stalker?  Or just someone with an, um, healthy obsession with golden girl Polly Linley Dawson?  No one much notices Alice: not her boss, not the neighbors, not even her Mother.

Besides, everyone follows Polly: her business selling high-end lingerie you can imagine only her elegant self wearing, her all-over-the-social-pages marriage to movie director Humphrey Dawson, her chic looks, her wardrobe. Alice just follows her a little more….closely.

And when she loses her job and starts to follow Polly Dawson one Manhattan autumn afternoon, Alice stumbles on the object of her attention sprawled dead on the floor of a boutique.  Alice is forced to become truly beneath anyone’s notice. Invisible, in fact. Because she’s accused of murder.

But can another obsession help save Alice with the fallout?  Charlie is Alice’s longtime unattainable crush.  He might be able to help her out of the mess she’s in…in return for a favor or two, that is.    And how will Alice find out if Charlie is really the man Alice thinks he is?

Visit the publisher’s website and Karen Bergreen’s website.

Follow Karen Bergreen on twitter.

Purchase your copy of Following Polly by Karen Bergreen.

Check out other From Left to Write upcoming book clubs and follow the From Left to Write Google Calendar to keep up to date on all of the book club events and dates.

J.M. Barrie’s Peter Pan The Show in San Francisco: A From Left to Write Outing

J.M. Barrie's Peter Pan - The Show in San Francisco, CA

J.M. Barrie's Peter Pan - The Show in San Francisco, CA

Last Wednesday, a group of mom bloggers flew to Neverland, where Peter Pan the show is currently running through September 5 at Ferry Park in San Francisco. Many of the From Left to Write bloggers from the San Francisco Bay Area were among them, this being a show based upon the original Peter Pan story by JM Barrie (download your free copy here).

Read about our adventures:

Thanks to SHNSF for the tickets*.

*Disclosure: Each blogger received four free tickets from SHNSF to see Peter Pan. From Left to Write is not obligated to write about the show, but if and when we do all opinions are our own.

This Is Not The Story You Think It Is by Laura Munson: A From Left to Write Book Club

This Is Not The Story You Think  It Is...

This Is Not the Story You Think It Is by Laura Munson

Can you choose happiness? Even in the midst of a very unlikely time to be happy? Read the stories the From Left to Write bloggers are sharing today, inspired by the book This Is Not the Story You Think It Is by Laura Munson.

About the book:

When Laura Munson’s essay was published, The New York Times was so flooded with responses that they had to close down the comment feature. Readers wrote in saying that they had sent the column to all of their friends. Therapists wrote Munson to tell her that they were passing it out to their clients.

What did Munson write that caused such a fervor?

Laura detailed what happened when her husband of more than twenty years told her he wasn’t sure he loved her anymore and wanted to move out. And while you might think you know where this story is going, this isn’t the story you think it is. Laura’s response to her husband: I don’t buy it.

In this poignant, wise, and often funny memoir, Munson recounts a period of months in which her faith in herself-and her marriage-was put to the test. Shaken to the core after the death of her beloved father, not finding the professional success that she had hoped for, and after countless hours of therapy, Laura finally, at age forty, realized she had to stop basing her happiness on things outside her control and commit herself to an “End of Suffering.” This Is Not The Story You Think It Is… chronicles a woman coming to terms with the myths we tell ourselves-and others-about our life and realizing that ultimately happiness is completely within our control.

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Purchase your copy of This Is Not the Story You Think It Is by Laura Munson here.

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Full Disclosure: From Left to Write bloggers received complimentary copies of the book This Is Not the Story You Think It Is for use and participation in the From Left to Write Book Club. They were not obligated to write about this book.